Crazy Materialistic Addiction

Today 14th October is the day that the new iPhone 4S is being released all over the world. I've seen a few stories of people that have been camped out for days in order to be one of the first to get their hands on this new Apple phone and even of those in NYC being offered extraordinary amounts of money to give up their hard-earned 1st place position.

I've been waiting since I returned from Italy to also get this new device. In Italy I had the iPhone 3GS and I have to say I was an addict. So much so that every time I send a text with the average Nokia old style phone that I've had since I returned to Sydney I get really annoyed and usually end up accidentally saving a draft version of the text and then swearing under my breath as I desperately try to just send a little old text.

For me the Top 3 reasons why I'm heading to the shops tomorrow to (hopefully) upgrade to the new iPhone are:

* Internet access wherever I am (and therefore the plan I am going to be signing up for has ample data included in the monthly cost!)
* Camera - I've really missed just being able to pull out my phone and take a quick random photo whilst I'm out and about not to mention the Photo applications such as Hipstamatic and Instagram.
* The "All in 1" facet, meaning I can check my emails, Facebook, SMS a friend, take a photo, check the latest news headlines all from one device.

Now, yes, there are Android options and I have been lectured by many people about trying an Android option instead of the Apple iPhone, as for them the Android benefits out-weigh those of the Apple but as I mentioned before I am an iPhone convert and my mind is made up. The early reviews of the new iPhone have all been really positive including the new operating system iOS 5, Siri (voice recognition feature), and great camera all being upgraded and of course the overall speed especially with opening Applications and the browser.

So yes, that makes me a devout iPhone user, and made me think that in this day and age we as consumers all do generally have some addiction to a technological product or gadget that we simply "couldn't live without". On a higher level does this mean we have a greater materialistic need for technology that satisfies our every need and whim, or do we regard technology as being an easier way to make our lives that bit more efficient. I personally think its a bit of both. We use and need technology yet we have our preferences for brands or products that personally we want over needing.

Happy Weekend to you all! It's Friday afternoon knock off time here in Sydney!

Simple Happiness

This weekend has ended up being really great. I drove home after dinner last night and just had a feeling of happiness inside me. I love having days like that. I had breakfast in the morning with one of my brothers at Coogee beach. We chatted about all sorts of things, and enjoyed a nice catch up. This brother of mine has been working long hours recently so it was nice to have some relaxed time together. In the afternoon there was a big storm that went through Sydney, and it was just after I had sat down to do my Yin Yoga class.

About a month ago I had picked up a brochure about this form of yoga at Balmoral beach and it sparked my interest. I had never heard of this form of yoga, and rang the teacher to find out more information. Here is a website with more details http://www.yinyoga.com/. It's slightly different to the normal forms of yoga as you actually work the connective tissue, not muscles and its a quiet, relaxed practice in which poses are held for up to five minutes at a time. The class went for 2.5 hours as well, which I have to admit I was slightly daunted about prior to the class, but the time flew and I felt great when we finished. I thoroughly enjoyed the class and decided to book in also for the next one in November. I think it will be good to combine this stretching with the running and cross training sessions that I'm doing every week. It's all part of my current efforts to get a bit fitter. I'm trying!

So after my yoga class I picked up my Aunt and drove across to Surry Hills. We met with a cousin of mine, her husband and kids who are currently living in China and were over in Sydney for a holiday. We had dinner at a Thai restaurant called Sugarcane which is on Reservoir st in Surry Hills. The food was really delicious, full of flavour and service excellent. It's obviously pretty popular because it was completely full. I'll definitely go again. I hadn't seen my cousin and her family for more than five years so of course the kids were that little bit more mature and characters grown even more. They have been living in China for over two years and will be there for another year or more. I really enjoyed seeing them and hope to see them again around Christmas time when they are back in Australia for a few weeks.

That was my day, and all of that made me happy. As they say, its definitely the simple things in life. Good times and experiences with beautiful people.

And today my lovely weekend continued as I went to the annual Lane Cove fair with family as well. It was fun and my one niece enjoyed a few different rides as well. I even got to speak some Italian when I was buying my lunch as there was some Italian guys running a piadina stand. The later afternoon was more nerve wracking than anything when Australia played South Africa in the quarter final of the Rugby World Cup. It was a very tough and close match and thank goodness the Australian Wallabies won, but only just. Next weekend the two semi-finals will be France v Wales and Australia v New Zealand. Fingers crossed for the Wallabies, but they need to play really well. It's going to be very difficult to beat New Zealand. Maybe fingers and toes crossed will do it?!?!?

Blah! di Blah!

Right now at this very second I feel empty. I'm not sure why, maybe its more just a tired feeling. It's late Friday night, and I have an old episode of ER also on the TV. This evening I met a friend in the city at The Opera Bar which is (as the name suggests!) right next to the beautiful Sydney Opera House, and as you look out whilst sipping a drink there is a glorious view of the Harbour Bridge. This evening after having a clear afternoon with nice sun it started drizzling and then raining so the view wasn't as spectacular as usual. We then had dinner at a nearby restaurant before heading home. This week was fairly busy both at work and also socially. It was a short week as last weekend included a public holiday and I have to say it was so very nice to have three days off from work. I have caught up with a couple of friends that I hadn't seen for a while, and it was good to chat with each of them and hear their news. One is engaged and planning her wedding whilst the other has just returned from a trip to London. Nice adventures and experiences for each. I'm working on a couple of proposals at work and hoping that they come through, fingers crossed.

Yesterday Steve Jobs passed away, and people across the globe talked, tweeted, emoted, cried and simply felt sincere thanks to this man who through the past 30 years has changed and innovated technology, music and movies. He is going to be missed incredibly by his family, colleagues, friends and those that he simply touched by creating products that became indispensable in their every day lives. I personally liked all the different world and technology leaders each paying their own respects and sharing their stories about something that Jobs had done for them. I am not someone who has been using a Mac for years, but I do love my iPod and I'm desperately awaiting the release of the iPhone 4S! So Mr Jobs Thank You for turning me into a somewhat Apple addict...but grateful always to an entrepreneur and innovator for ultimately teaching and showing us all what we can achieve if we push and are indeed Hungry enough.

Tomorrow I am going to a yoga class which lasts for 2 1/2 hours. Poses are held for between 3-5 minutes each. Its a form of yoga that I've not tried before, so I'm curious to do the class and then see how I feel on Sunday...hopefully I will be able to move! I'm also catching up tomorrow night with a cousin of mine and her family, which I'm excited about. I haven't seen them for over five years, and so we will have loads to talk about. They are currently living in China, and I think that I'd actually like to try and visit them in the next year as I've never been to China and am curious to travel there. I'm also wanting to go to Buenos Aires in February as an Argentinian friend of mine from Milan is getting married there. That's another part of the world that I have never been to, in fact I have never been to South America. I remember years ago someone saying to me that people are generally drawn to either South America or Africa but rarely both. I'm not so sure about this theory, perhaps because I truly love to travel and experience new cultures and explore new places, but perhaps there is a percentage of people who will forever yearn for just one of these great continents. This week I've also booked my flights to travel to Melbourne in January for a weekend, and this will include going to see the Australian Open tennis. I have been a few times before to the tennis and it's always a great time of the year in Melbourne (even if sometimes it can be unbearably hot!), with lots happening in the city and a great atmosphere in general.

I think that is about it for now...back soon!

About Me? Awww Shucks!

At the end of last week a friend of mine in Milan who is Russian, asked if she could write about me on her own blog. She wanted to ask me a few questions about my time living in Italy, and what I miss about it now and what in turn that I missed about Australia whilst living in Italy for five years.

Here is the link to Anna's blog and her story about me: http://emigranti-inc.livejournal.com/2996.html

Now, yes its all in Russian, and for those of us who don't understand the language, here is the questions and answers in English:

My name is: Debra
I am: 38 years old
My hometown is: Sydney, Australia
I was in Italy for: Just over five years. I started off in Bologna for 4 months, and then spent the rest of the time living in Milano. I did a 3 month Italian course in Bologna and then when I decided that I wanted to try living and working in Italy, I found a job in Milano and that is when I moved there.
I started working for 77Agency in: June 2007
Italian Jobs: My first job was with a small head-hunting company where I worked for 9 months, and then I started work with 77, as an Account Manager.
Why Italy: I originally traveled to Italy to learn the language and in fact said that I would likely return to Australia after 3-6 months, and in the end I returned after just over five years! I was really enjoying the cultural experiences I was having and before I knew it the time had passed. I will never regret my time in Italy.

1) Top 3 Things about Italy:

• Food: I am missing proper Italian pizza and gelato especially. I am yet to eat an authentic Italian pizza since I got back to Australia.
• Italian scenery: Italy is such a diverse country with regards to the scenery which changes from the Lakes and mountains in the north to the beautiful coastline in the south. Australia does have beautiful places and nature as well, however Italy is a bit different and the beautiful old villages amongst rolling hills or with spectacular views across the ocean are incredible.
• Shopping: I think that the stores, clothes and shoes available in Milano are beautiful, well priced and the stores are always so nice to take a walk through, from the every day stores like Zara and H&M right through to the luxury high-end like Gucci or Prada.
  

2) Three Things I don't like about Italy:

• Berlusconi: He is running the country solely with his own interests at heart, and really just needs to resign, be found guilty of all the crimes he has committed and never be seen again. I know that this is really harsh, but his behaviour would not be accepted in any other country in the world.
  
• Bureaucracy: If you have ever needed to do any thing like organise a Visa or Residency in Italy you know that the systems are very old-fashioned and that arriving at the official office at 6am in the morning is normal. These systems are very frustrating for anyone coming from a country used to things being organised quickly and efficiently.
• Space: In Italy wherever you are there is always a house, village, car, person nearby. Its understandable when there is 60 million people living in the country, but I think that for me this took a while to get used to when you come from a country such as Australia which is so huge and its very easy to go for a drive in the Australian countryside and not see anyone else for hours.

3) Three Things about Australia that I missed in Italy:

• My family: How can you not miss your family? We are close and it was always hard when there was an important event to be across the other side of the world. I am loving spending lots of time again with them now, especially my two nieces who just make me smile constantly.
• International Cuisine: In Australia it is possible to eat food and go to restaurants from just about every country in the world, so I did miss the food choices in Italy, and for example Thai food which I just love! Every time I traveled to London for work I made sure to go to a restaurant offering the food I was really craving.
  
• Beach: I am from Sydney which is a city situated right on the beach and I am also a real summer and water person. There are so many beaches right in Sydney which you can travel to depending on where you live in the city or otherwise a huge harbour as well. Whenever it was stinking hot in Milan during summer I would dream about going to my favourite beaches in Sydney for a swim. I'm therefore really enjoying the fact that we are in spring over here now and I'm looking forward to spending lazy days on the beach again very soon.

Thanks Anna for this experience and asking me to be part of your blog! 

Strangely Odd!

This is going to be a quick post, but its something that has been stuck in my head all morning.

Today I got up and went for a run before work, and whilst jogging along the streets of downtown Neutral Bay here in Sydney, I saw something that made me not only raise my eyebrows, but shake my head and just plain old wonder.

I was running along and in front of me were two middle aged ladies going for a morning walk. Nothing odd with this sight you think, however the thing which made me raise my eyebrows was that these two ladies were twins with the same body shape, and dressed in exactly the same clothes with the same haircut and I think the same glasses as well.

So this image of these two ladies walking along looking exactly the same just rushed back into my head. Yes, I know its a random thing to write about, however it really struck me as odd. Why are these two women still wearing the same clothes? Was it just an odd coincidence or is this something that they do every day? I have friends who are twins around the same age as me, and they definitely don't do this although I am sure when they were kids at one time or another their parents did dress them in the same clothes, but that was then and this is now.

Strange one indeed I think....but that I guess is what makes the world go round...we all have our own personality quirks which raise someone's eyebrows.

Running On...

Since moving back to Sydney, I have been trying to get fitter and healthier overall, and one of the things I have been doing to get stronger has been running. I started running whilst I was living in Milan, and prior to that I had always said that I couldn't run. A colleague of mine in Milan is a big running enthusiast including doing marathons and I think that I was spurred on originally by her and so I decided to try. Starting off I did running, walking, running again, and I still remember the day I did a full lap running non-stop of the park I used to jog around and the pride I felt at having accomplished that small feat. So since then I have continued to run and in Milan that generally entailed me starting in spring and by the end of autumn I was slowing down as the thought of getting up when it was cold, dark and at times snowy wasn't super appealing! I'm definitely not going to break any world records, but I have definitely started to enjoy this sport.

I joined a gym here in Sydney for a month, (special deal!), and so re-started my running training. During the first few weeks of being back and living here again my head was a bit all over the place, and I kept telling myself to get out and do something but I think in the end it took me almost a month to get myself motivated and going to the gym plus running again outside. I actually am someone who prefers exercising outside as opposed to gym's (apart from something like yoga), and since my one month gym membership expired I am jogging usually in the mornings for around 30 minutes a few times a week and for the past couple of weeks I have also started doing a personal training session once a week. During my gym membership I heard about the Blackmores Running Festival taking place on Sunday 18th September, and I started thinking about taking part. There was four different runs ranging from a marathon, half marathon, 9km Bridge run and 4km Family fun run. I have never actually known how far I run because I have always just run by time; that is I run 30 minutes and that is my goal as opposed to running 5kms and seeing how long it takes to do it.

In addition to starting to run more lately I have also been motivated by a few specific friends who were doing the race and supporting me to give it a go. So after much deliberation I registered for the 9km run. I wasn't sure how long it would take me but I ran once for 60 minutes and another time for 50 minutes in order to give me some experience at running non-stop for that length of time. From my time at the gym I knew that I had run 6 kms in 42 minutes so I thought that I should target around 60-65 minutes to try to achieve, and also I just wanted to run the race non-stop as well.

The 9 km Bridge Run was the last one to start yesterday morning, at 9am, and it was due to reach about 28 degrees, so at least it wasn't going to rain, but that temperature in September here in Sydney is quite warm and random. One friend was getting going at 6.20am to do the half marathon and another was doing the marathon which started around 7.30am. I caught the bus to where the race started, and there were many people taking part also on the same bus as me. I had lots of butterflies flying around my tummy already and I glanced around at the people on the bus and noticed that their race bib's were all a bit different to mine. My bib had "Family Fun Run" written on it and they all had "Bridge Run". So I started getting a little bit more nervous and stressed as I realised I had registered for the wrong race! I was seemingly registered to run the 4km instead. I got off the bus at North Sydney and walked quickly down to the starting point at Milsons Point, and to find someone to ask about this little problem of mine. I asked a lady at the Information tent and she said to me that the race was full and that I couldn't run, plus that if I did run I could be made to stop by any official who saw me. A multitude of thoughts ran through my head thinking about the past week where I had been thinking of this race non-stop and also the many people who had wished me well. I walked away from the Information tent and thought to myself, no way, I'm going to do it. I was psyched to run this 9km and I wanted to give it a go.

I carefully maneuvered myself within the big group of people at the start, hoping to be as inconspicuous as possible trying to look like I was right where I should be. Then we were off, and I was immediately caught by the race and started running at my speed and not trying to run too fast. After I think only about 500 metres my mouth was dry and I was super thirsty. That feeling continued for the whole race and we had two drink stops where I quickly gulped down a glass of water. The race itself is extremely picturesque as we ran firstly across the Harbour Bridge and then down the Cahill Expressway with a beautiful view towards the Opera House and Sydney harbour before running up Macquarie street in the City, past the NSW Art Gallery to Mrs Macquaries Chair then double-backed and all the way down Macquarie street again finishing at the Opera House. I ran the whole way which I was thrilled about and I think finished with a time between 62-63 minutes. I don't know my actual time because the text message I received with my "official" time was 2 hours 11 minutes...ooops! For four km's!! Funny! I had to laugh. I received my medal for finishing which I later gave to my niece.

After finishing I caught up with my friends, and heard their stories from the half and full marathon. We watched at the finish line as the many marathon runners arrived and I have to say its the most impressive thing to see people who have just run 42kms straight and they can still laugh let alone stand up. The temperature definitely affected most people but I think most of all you could tell everyone was genuinely proud of themselves and the race they had run. I know I was pretty happy with my effort!

Speeding Up

On Wednesday evening I went to a Speed Networking evening. Now I’ve only been Speed Dating once in my life, and therefore Speed Networking was an entirely new thing for me. A complete rooky I was. But I wanted to try it out and experience speaking non-stop for two hours about me and what I do.

I arrived to a full room of people and our host explaining the evening and what to expect. I scanned the room and saw people from seemingly all walks of life like me wanting to meet some potential new business contacts, and as the host explained perhaps get some contracts signed and credit cards out ready to make that huge purchase.

There was approximately 100 people who attended the evening and we started by having five minutes per session with one other person each given half that time to talk about themselves and their business. Similar to the Speed Dating concept five minutes with some people fly’s by and with others you feel like walking up Mt Everest would be quicker.

First up I spoke to an Accountant then followed with fellow Web marketers, someone ready to help me find true meaning in my life, recruitment specialists, a Russian pyscho-analyst (& yes I did feel like I was being analysed – he was looking very deeply into my eyes!), and another urging me to join the Compassion Project. There were people from many different business sectors, with Entrepreneurs, business development managers and even one who said she wasn’t there to push her business she instead just wanted to simply meet people.

After our five minute sessions, we then did Super Speed Networking, with 15 second personal introductions, and that had us moving quickly from seat to seat. I learnt that it is possible to detail in 15 seconds what I do professionally. As was discussed, such a short amount of time is roughly what we get to introduce ourselves when we meet a stranger in for example an elevator. True I thought, and that is what a first impression is all about.  

At the end of the two hours (which flew by the way) I did have pretty much no voice left and it was still a bit squeaky yesterday, however I felt that the event for me had been a success. Not only did I meet some interesting people and potential business contacts, but I also was taught some new skills about how to express and introduce myself. Now on to sewing those seeds…